Is life a competition with others ?
No, it isnt
The only competitor is yourself , and the person/entity you should ever compare yourself to is your past self.
You are worth it and are doing well.
Show gratitude to everything you own now, your body, your mind, your living condition, everything.
To be alive is a blessing and you have the control to change anything in your life. You have the freedom and you have the ability.
Please believe in yourself and in what you can achieve.
Please Have Faith and Hope for a brighter future.
To who ever am reading this now, May the times you feel like suffocating and where you see only darkness and no light, may you remember that at anytime that you are not alone and light will be shine to your life path in the near future and at each moment there is someone on earth and even up in heaven that is hoping that your life will get better and It will.
It will get better .
So don't give up.
Don't ever give up on your life.
Regards
Jingru Quah. :)
I don't discriminate nor do I harbor any hatred for any genre or type of people.
But I pity those that Discriminate and Judges people without any senses. Everyone have been through stuff in their life and been thru their ups & downs, for what do we, humans have to gossip between each other and have small talks about people whom they have little knowledge about or about people that don't even know them ?
They say blood runs thicker than water but sometimes the only people you have to trust is yourself. Even relatives have small talk within them self and judges whatever you did whether or not it affect them. At times, the closest to you, are the ones that stand against you. Against what you have and against what you want to do.
Picked myself up with the help and comfort of friends that I have no blood relation to than those that I had. Blog and Journals are the one that got me through my darkest time.
Trust yourself and none others.
But have Faith in Humanity & that you will be able to enact good change in people.
Think out of the box and go out of way to help those in need.
I feel that the people that contribute mostly back to the society are those who are unique, eccentric and been through their darkest point in their life.
Because by only being thru the darkest point in their life, will they truly understand the pain of Loss, Betrayal, Failure & Depression.
I give my greatest applaud to those that emerge from their darkness and trying to be the beacons of light to the others.
I hope you all continue to do what you all are doing good at and be Truthful to yourself, forever and always.
Love,
Jingruus
24th July 2021 is International Self Care Day & this year theme is < Make your self-care promise today > .
Before you take care of other's need, remember to take care of yourself by recharging your mind and body. Take a rest every now and then to rejuvenate yourself for the bright future ahead of you.
Some of self care practices are:
- Finding your "Me-Time" , spend time alone and meditate your mind & soul.
- Start your day early by drinking a glass of warm water and eat a Hearty Breakfast and take a stroll down your nearest park. Absorb the sun and positive vibes.
- Take a break from your burden ; your work, household chore, what ever that's weighing on your shoulder.
- Lastly write down your thoughts/woes and don't keep the weight of the whole world to yourself. You are not alone in this.
Staying kind and lending a helping hand to others, but you have to take care of yourself first before taking care of others.
To be loved, you first have to love yourself.
Stay happy & lastly Have Faith & Hope.
Signing off
Jingru
