Validation

 After years of breathing, i've come to realised that another important thing in life that affects ones mood (atleast for myself) is Validation. 

The validation for recognition, for the goods that one did and the achievements one have. Set aside any other values of life and set aside the things that those that were born with a gold spoon will have, we all have one common need for " validation " one more so than the other depending on their starting point.

For today, I have realised that by internalizing your own version of "validation" and first validate your own achievements and wellbeing will top any other situation because at the end of the day your soul is contained in your body and really at the end of the day, Though you might not be able to control the events of things. 

You can however control how it affects you and in turn how it affects the next course of action you will take,

if you were to read the beginning of my blog post ( when i was 16 or whatsoever ) , you will know that I seek an excessive amount of validation from the outside world and anything and everything else except the validation of my own self.

Fast forward now, I seek validation for what I want to do , to my body, to my soul and to the surroundings that I may or may not have effect on and because of this . I am increasingly experiencing moments of Euphoria without the aid of anything.

Ending off,

Live Life and never ever let Life Live You.

Love,

Jing Ru 

Random thoughts

In this judgmental & competitive world, people will talk behind your back on all the kinds of things they want to say but that's just their freedom of speech.

If you are affected by them & start to self-loath then you get what they want to achieve. Instead learn from your mistake and empower yourself to do better than your past self.

Woman should bring woman up instead of trashing them. #EmpowerYourself. Be better and don't steep to their level.

There is no right, no wrong in this world. So do whatever that makes you happy and cherish each day as if it's your last. But stop whatever you think that is halting your progress, your future. If you think that alcohol is of  bad influence to you. Stop. It's never to late to stop whatever , whoever that is in your path to a brighter future.

Stop the self-loathing & self indulgence on bad habits that make you maybe happy even for a little while if it make you feel bad for a longer time.

It is never to late to change and contribute to society in a better way. If you fall down on your journey, stand up and buck up. Same goes to contributing to a better environment.

Every single step counts, every single action counts, to break your negative habit.

To be a better you.

I may have succumb to darkness not long ago , but I still have a long way to go and it's to early to give up.

So may I take my past as a lesson and don't get burned by the same fire twice.

Signing off,

Michelle Quah Jing Ru